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Princess DPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 1:31pm

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I've recently become single after being in a four year relationship and was looking forward to meeting some new and interesting guys but so far i have found that at clubs and raves guys will not approach me and start a conversation. I know that i could make the first move but i feel more special if a guy shoes interest in me. Is this a new trend- that guys don't talk to girls anymore? Whats going on?

Are you coming on to me? Im not hearing a no.......

*I dont need those people, i can wear a pink dress!*

Truly, if theres light, then i wanna see it
Now that i know what i am looking for
Truly, if theres joy then i wanna feel it
Here in this world is where i wanna be
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JamesMPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 1:35pm

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QUOTE (Princess D @ Mar 30 2004, 01:31 PM)

but i feel more special if a guy shoes interest in me.

Shoes interest in you? Well there's ya problem, most guys won't walk up and hit you with a shoe!

Now this is an obvious piss take, but i'll take the bait anyway.

Most guys don't go to raves to pick up...so my suggestion is to wait until all the recoveries on Sunday. Wait until your target is 'helpless' and pounce on him...shit, it's worked for heaps of people.

Another train of thought is that you might just be a fucking minger, and that I wouldn't even fuck you with Oddy's dick.

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LauraPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 1:37pm

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I would be a little put off if a guy hit on me at a rave. But thats just me
Like James said, wait til recovery, or scroll through some people's profiles here until you find a cute guy with a photo and move in for the kill

Dont confuse my smile for happiness...
It's insanity

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Click me! Click me!

Unless of course you really are a minger.

I love chicks that are just out of relationships, all vulnerable and insecure and shit - always up for anal just to impress you.

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PundyPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 1:39pm

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Ooo Ooo I gotta get my photo on RA! I didn't know it would work like a dating agency too!

outofcontrolPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 1:41pm

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QUOTE (JamesM @ Mar 30 2004, 01:35 PM)

QUOTE (Princess D @ Mar 30 2004, 01:31 PM)

but i feel more special if a guy shoes interest in me.

Most guys don't go to raves to pick up...so my suggestion is to wait until all the recoveries on Sunday. Wait until your target is 'helpless' and pounce on him...shit, it's worked for heaps of people.

very tru - neva date a rava
forget relationships (migrane at the thought)

enjoy the new found freedom!
but dont expect to find next longterm partner at a recovery either

btw are you a minger?

I spilled an experimental chemical on my arm and leg. It Burns. The experimantal chemical is slowly turning my arm into a sentient biological weapon and my leg is mutating into a laser tentacle. Ouch.

G__Posted: 30 Mar 2004, 1:42pm

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Princess.. raves arent for picking up.. you should be hanging at the classy establishments.. like Mansions, Church and the Village.

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BeMyRaverPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 1:43pm

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bwahhaha..

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R-EPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 1:44pm

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QUOTE (_R-E_ @ Mar 30 2004, 01:44 PM)

and the grand sunday nights!!

OH YEAH!!

*thrusts hips*

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GanderPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 1:45pm

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The only people that 'try it on' at raves usually arent ravers.
Make friends with any guy thats up to scratch, and you might join in with his crew, and if things get good, you could start a crew together!

Whats so wrong with being single? Give you the chance to wait until you find the right fit.

oh yeah, RA BBQ's are a great chance to size-up and meet other like minded single ravers!

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outofcontrolPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 1:45pm

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QUOTE (Laura @ Mar 30 2004, 01:37 PM)

I would be a little put off if a guy hit on me at a rave. But thats just me

who are these guys hitting chicks with shoes!

I spilled an experimental chemical on my arm and leg. It Burns. The experimantal chemical is slowly turning my arm into a sentient biological weapon and my leg is mutating into a laser tentacle. Ouch.

GanderPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 1:46pm

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QUOTE (_R-E_ @ Mar 30 2004, 02:44 PM)

and the grand sunday nights!!

I hear even the Dj is single!

ahhh the grand, love is only a short walk (and a little sand down the undies) away

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Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
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And that has made all the difference. "
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Mac-DaddyPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 1:49pm

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QUOTE (G__ @ Mar 30 2004, 01:42 PM)

Princess.. raves arent for picking up.. you should be hanging at the classy establishments.. like Mansions, Church and the Village.

done that many times, and the more i go, the more i feel sorry for myself for going. the only reason why i go is for the glimmer of hope that id pick up, but usually im too busy drowning my sorrows and making a phool of myself on the podiums

i cant tolorate that shite anymore, when ever i go out with expectations, they never work, and just endup in heart ache... so my plan now is to let the women come to me

The horizon leans forward, offering you new space to place steps of change.

outofcontrolPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 1:50pm

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QUOTE (_R-E_ @ Mar 30 2004, 01:44 PM)

and the grand sunday nights!!

...planet, heaven, arkaba ahahahahahahahahhahahahahhahahahhaha!!!!!

I spilled an experimental chemical on my arm and leg. It Burns. The experimantal chemical is slowly turning my arm into a sentient biological weapon and my leg is mutating into a laser tentacle. Ouch.

R-EPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 1:51pm

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all class!!

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Hard style, Freeform & Hard house back to Saturday nights with 2 pumping levels.
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I find going out with P0W3R_R4V3R works a treat on 2 levels:

1) He gets so many bitches chasing him, your bound to get some rejects
2) He often gets HEAPS messy, so he repulses a few of them..standing next to him, you automatically become the next best option

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Mac-DaddyPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 1:57pm

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schoolies would have to be by far the easiest place to pick up.
exchange, the Ed, havlock. the music is just soo fuking bad tho!
if not, maybe head down to stormy summers she'll hook ya up

The horizon leans forward, offering you new space to place steps of change.

outofcontrolPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 2:05pm

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what happened to princess d? think we might av scared her off? ha ha
maybe she really is a minger!

I spilled an experimental chemical on my arm and leg. It Burns. The experimantal chemical is slowly turning my arm into a sentient biological weapon and my leg is mutating into a laser tentacle. Ouch.

Miss_B_HavinPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 2:07pm

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QUOTE (Princess D @ Mar 30 2004, 01:31 PM)

was looking forward to meeting some new and interesting guys but so far i have found that at clubs and raves guys will not approach me and start a conversation

You are looking in the wrong place hun. I'd suggest just go run a muck with your mates for a while.. especially if you've just come out of a long term relationship, just go out and some fun without the headfarks of thinking bout starting another one. Being single and independent is sometimes the best way of finding out who, and how great a person you really are

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reewindPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 2:08pm

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I've changed my stance about relationships in recent times.

Being attached is great because you know you can just ring them up, go out and do shit etc and that there is always someone you can count on being there. I'ts also good for the loyalty aspect and making someone feel good about themselves.

As much as single life can at times suck, It's also good having the freedom that singledom can bring, not having to be responsible for your actions, and knowing you can do what you want without hurting anyone. It can also open your eyes up to more options at times too. The main drawback is loneliness though which can be pretty shitty.

The best of both worlds would be nice!

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Mac-DaddyPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 2:12pm

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QUOTE (reewind @ Mar 30 2004, 02:08 PM)

I've changed my stance about relationships in recent times.

Being attached is great because you know you can just ring them up, go out and do shit etc and that there is always someone you can count on being there. I'ts also good for the loyalty aspect and making someone feel good about themselves.

As much as single life can at times suck, It's also good having the freedom that singledom can bring, not having to be responsible for your actions, and knowing you can do what you want without hurting anyone. It can also open your eyes up to more options at times too. The main drawback is loneliness though which can be pretty shitty.

The best of both worlds would be nice!

well summed up mate... a little bit, too well if u ask me

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QUOTE (reewind @ Mar 30 2004, 02:08 PM)

The best of both worlds would be nice!

It's a shame watching people try and tread that line, and seeing others get hurt.

One or the other folks! (as i've learned myself)

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=premo=Posted: 30 Mar 2004, 2:15pm

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i miss my gf soo fkn much

, but were still good friends

and being single is so much fun

Understeer? just E brake it!

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QUOTE (Miss_B_Havin @ Mar 30 2004, 02:07 PM)

QUOTE (Princess D @ Mar 30 2004, 01:31 PM)

was looking forward to meeting some new and interesting guys but so far i have found that at clubs and raves guys will not approach me and start a conversation

You are looking in the wrong place hun. I'd suggest just go run a muck with your mates for a while.. especially if you've just come out of a long term relationship, just go out and some fun without the headfarks of thinking bout starting another one. Being single and independent is sometimes the best way of finding out who, and how great a person you really are

too right MissB no bloke wants to be the rebound guy.

go out and have a ball, discover how much fun it is to run amuck with ya mates and enjoy ya freedom. you'll find a nice guy in good time no doubt.

good things to those who wait

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=premo=Posted: 30 Mar 2004, 2:21pm

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also its hard to tell if ur in wit the person ya chattin up (at raves) , especialy whn evryone is already smilin at cha.

Understeer? just E brake it!

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KrissyPosted: 30 Mar 2004, 2:24pm

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who needs a boyfriend when there is icecream...

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QUOTE (Krissy @ Mar 30 2004, 02:24 PM)

who needs a boyfriend when there is icecream...

Kinky!

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HillzeeePosted: 30 Mar 2004, 2:26pm

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I've become interested in a raver recently, But i have'nt done a fukkin thing

because, the way I see it is I'm here to stay(raving) and so is she, and this is my refuse from the outside world.. I dont want anything to make the Scene the slightest bit uncomfotable..Not that having a girlfriend on the scene would but having a X-girlfriend on the scene might.. I come out to forget about Every thing, lose my shit on the dancefloor, get munted and get chatty with y'all..

I think i speak for most ravers there...

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QUOTE (Krissy @ Mar 30 2004, 03:24 PM)

who needs a boyfriend when there is icecream...

You're slamming Cornettos up your vag?

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When I find the appropriate girlie.. Can't wait to do things like weddings and match my tie to her dress etc.. Just reckon thats so cute!

KingeePosted: 16 Jan 2006, 3:03pm

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QUOTE(Betterman @ Jan 16 2006, 02:50 PM)

i prefer my mate charlie in the sack
he is quicker, but still is an awesome root

:lol:

Do I really want to ask you what that's all about ??????

Yes I do please fill me in Betterman!!!!!!

snypePosted: 16 Jan 2006, 3:05pm

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ShiBByPosted: 16 Jan 2006, 3:08pm

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fcuk the single life....

when you find miss right and not miss right now...

life is good.....

TankPosted: 16 Jan 2006, 3:11pm

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QUOTE(ShiBBy @ Jan 16 2006, 04:08 PM)

fcuk the single life....

when you find miss right and not miss right now...
life is good.....

I concur... :grin: Life has never been better...

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QUOTE(Epic @ Jan 16 2006, 03:49 PM)

im just leaving home now bel..... ;)

I ain't home :tongue: :lol:

QUOTE(Captain Vicks @ Jan 16 2006, 04:02 PM)

When I find the appropriate girlie.. Can't wait to do things like weddings and match my tie to her dress etc.. Just reckon thats so cute!

Oh you are so cute! :blush: :kiss:

QUOTE(Kingee @ Jan 16 2006, 04:03 PM)

Do I really want to ask you what that's all about ??????

Yes I do please fill me in Betterman!!!!!!

Um i think he is filling Charlie in as we speak :crazy: :lol:

JessezPosted: 16 Jan 2006, 3:30pm

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single life it way too complicated at times as im experiencing.

Help me please!!!! :unsure:

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QUOTE(Jessez @ Jan 16 2006, 04:30 PM)

single life it way too complicated at times as im experiencing.

Help me please!!!! :unsure:

buy your self a dog and a gun :wink:

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QUOTE(Jessez @ Jan 16 2006, 04:30 PM)

single life it way too complicated at times as im experiencing.

Help me please!!!! :unsure:

how can single life be complicated? its nothing but fun with friends, going out, booze, sex and DJ Slide!

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QUOTE(Betterman @ Jan 16 2006, 03:36 PM)

DJ Slide!

the name on everyones lips atm :tongue:

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QUOTE(Nic Borrelli @ Jan 16 2006, 04:40 PM)

the name on everyones lips atm :tongue:

hes also the man with his lips on my cock ATM :saywhat:

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Have been up and down on the issue in recent months but since new years being single is winning hands down.

Nothing to do with sex either. Just been able to go where whenever and do what you want without having to deal with the whinging and bitching that every female has written in their genetic code.

So many good times have been had at present with no female in my life to prevent me from having them.

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But to add to that point i am having SOOO much fun bein single!! Dont have to worry bout anyone else but ME

JessezPosted: 16 Jan 2006, 3:50pm

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QUOTE(Betterman @ Jan 16 2006, 04:36 PM)

how can single life be complicated? its nothing but fun with friends, going out, booze, sex and DJ Slide!

guys make it complicated!!

All your guy friends turn around and say they like you and you have to let them down!!

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QUOTE(Jessez @ Jan 16 2006, 04:50 PM)

guys make it complicated!!

All your guy friends turn around and say they like you and you have to let them down!!

Sounds like you're making it complicated.

You obviously like them enough to be friends with them. Is it asking too much for you to at least give em a gobbie?

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QUOTE(Jessez @ Jan 16 2006, 04:50 PM)

guys make it complicated!!

All your guy friends turn around and say they like you and you have to let them down!!

so your saying this is a bad time to tell you i have feelings for you..

:lol:

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QUOTE(Tank @ Jan 16 2006, 03:42 PM)

hes also the man with his lips on my cock ATM :saywhat:

:saywhat:

... i see, its like that with him hey :lol:

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QUOTE(Noddy @ Jan 16 2006, 03:48 PM)

Have been up and down on the issue in recent months but since new years being single is winning hands down.

Nothing to do with sex either. Just been able to go where whenever and do what you want without having to deal with the whinging and bitching that every female has written in their genetic code.

So many good times have been had at present with no female in my life to prevent me from having them.

hearing that loud and clear mate - freedom, doing wat ya want, wen ya want - to me it isnt sex based either at all - plus its awesome havin some absolute top girly friends now without havin to explain shit all the time..

lifes good... lovving it!

cept i do have a wikid girly friend - but she encourages all of the above... :kiss:

also means i can bang tank and harry now, cept they get jelous of each other.

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QUOTE(Noddy @ Jan 16 2006, 03:53 PM)

Is it asking too much for you to at least give em a gobbie?

:teehee:

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QUOTE(Noddy @ Jan 16 2006, 03:53 PM)

Sounds like you're making it complicated.

You obviously like them enough to be friends with them. Is it asking too much for you to at least give em a gobbie?

agree, gotta keep your male friends happy or youll have no one

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QUOTE(Betterman @ Jan 16 2006, 04:53 PM)

so your saying this is a bad time to tell you i have feelings for you..

:lol:

I never got a choice in answering that one did i?? hehe :lol:

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QUOTE(Noddy @ Jan 16 2006, 04:53 PM)

Sounds like you're making it complicated.

You obviously like them enough to be friends with them. Is it asking too much for you to at least give em a gobbie?

pfft

NoddyPosted: 16 Jan 2006, 4:10pm

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QUOTE(Jessez @ Jan 16 2006, 05:04 PM)

pfft

Hey, its the treat you can eat between meals without ruining your appetite!

TankPosted: 16 Jan 2006, 4:11pm

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QUOTE(Noddy @ Jan 16 2006, 04:48 PM)

Have been up and down on the issue in recent months but since new years being single is winning hands down.

Nothing to do with sex either. Just been able to go where whenever and do what you want without having to deal with the whinging and bitching that every female has written in their genetic code.

So many good times have been had at present with no female in my life to prevent me from having them.

QUOTE(slide @ Jan 16 2006, 04:55 PM)

hearing that loud and clear mate - freedom, doing wat ya want, wen ya want - to me it isnt sex based either at all - plus its awesome havin some absolute top girly friends now without havin to explain shit all the time..

lifes good... lovving it!

cept i do have a wikid girly friend - but she encourages all of the above... :kiss:

also means i can bang tank and harry now, cept they get jelous of each other.

My ex gf was like that too. She stopped me doing heaps of shit. Thats why i now refer to her as "Handbrake" :lol: but the girl im with doesnt want to stop me doing anything i want to do. We share alot of the same interests which makes it even easier. I wouldnt give up her company for anything and i know i can say that coz i know i wont have to decide :wink:

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QUOTE(Noddy @ Jan 16 2006, 05:10 PM)

Hey, its the treat you can eat between meals without ruining your appetite!

Well spoken :lol: ...BUT....

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QUOTE(melly @ Jan 15 2006, 09:43 PM)

:lol:
only you caitlin. like the disabled guy who cheated on you. that was gold.

Shaaaaddup!

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QUOTE(Tank @ Jan 16 2006, 05:11 PM)

but the girl im with doesnt want to stop me doing anything i want to do. We share alot of the same interests which makes it even easier. I wouldnt give up her company for anything and i know i can say that coz i know i wont have to decide :wink:

You say that now. But wait till they get that ring on their finger.

Theyre tricky characters these females. Just when you think you scored the 1 in a million the evil side is released. They all have it.

Its some weird form of penis envy I think.

skipPosted: 16 Jan 2006, 7:39pm

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I shouldn't have a smirk on my face reading some of this. But I do. :wink:

RavvyPosted: 17 Jan 2006, 1:46pm

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what i wanna know is, how could you not have seen even the 'slightest' evil pop out in your 'special one'...

honestly.. if you havent seen all sides, i'd say she's hiding summin..>

gotta show all your true colors or your just fooling yourself... yaknow?

CypherPosted: 17 Jan 2006, 1:48pm

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single life is awesome...
- like how u gonna explain having to 18yr olds females in your bed to your girlfriend ? :w00t:

edit: thought i better clarify 'female' before all the guys jump me :wink:

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jodiejaiPosted: 15 Jun 2006, 3:25pm

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Could be for the better in some aspects, but also for the worse in others...

I guess getting screwed over allows you to REALLY appreciate the person who treats you well....

But I know a lot of people who are left really messed up because of bad relationships - and although they know what they definitely DON'T want...and they know what they will and wont put up with ....they're too scared to start something else for fear of being hurt again.... or they enter into new relationships still with issues and insecurities from past relationships hanging around...

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QUOTE(Mayday @ Jun 15 2006, 03:22 PM)

Is this why you have called me more in the past 10 weeks compared to the past 10 years?

nah, I've called on you for your dazzling wit and sparkling company.

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Hahaha... Thanks mate.

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QUOTE(jodiejai @ Jun 15 2006, 03:25 PM)

Could be for the better in some aspects, but also for the worse in others...

I guess getting screwed over allows you to REALLY appreciate the person who treats you well....

But I know a lot of people who are left really messed up because of bad relationships - and although they know what they definitely DON'T want...and they know what they will and wont put up with ....they're too scared to start something else for fear of being hurt again.... or they enter into new relationships still with issues and insecurities from past relationships hanging around...

Couldnt agree more, when going into a new relationship you need to forget everything about the person/people you have been with previously. Start with a clean slate and give the relationship the best chance it could have. Going into it with pre-concieved ideas and feelings because of whats been done to you in the past will just make things harder.

I really need to take my own advice sometimes but its fucking hard to do.

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QUOTE(Peace Baby @ Jun 15 2006, 04:09 PM)

I feel your pain...
I used to have someone to go out with every night...then both my besties got b/fs...then another, then winter and hibernation...god I'm lonely :lol:
:drama:

:gimme: I reckon we catch up more now I have a bf than when I didn't but I I know you weren't talking bout me in the above but :err: when I am not too tired or cold you know I am always keen to catch up with you Missy :wub:

I don't know, with my ex of 5.5 years I lost all of my friends but that was more because of him not liking them as he was older than I (and most of my mates used to be boys)

I am trying to be a better mate now I have a bf :wub: I felt I didn't catch up with people enough before I was with him but I try and catch up with my mates as much as I can now but that's manly because he gives me so much more confidence and I am also finding out who my real friends are so I am making more time for them - I am just finding that the limited time with my new job and with how fricken cold it is with winter is stopping me from going out and catching up with people more than anything :gimme:

I love going out with the girls now I got friends that are girls :wub:

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QUOTE(jodiejai @ Jun 15 2006, 03:25 PM)

But I know a lot of people who are left really messed up because of bad relationships - and although they know what they definitely DON'T want...and they know what they will and wont put up with ....they're too scared to start something else for fear of being hurt again.... or they enter into new relationships still with issues and insecurities from past relationships hanging around...

Ive done this on so many occasions get out of a bad relationship and go into a new one thinking that their going to treat me like shit and end up fucking up a decent relationship....and I keep doing it again and again!! *sighs* Some relationships have really fucked me up!!

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I must admit its frustrating when people automatically assume that because you've got a boyfriend/girlfriend thats the reason you stop going out/stop seeing your friends as much...

Although it does happen a lot ....a lot of people also have other reasons for not going out and for not catching up with people as much as they used to, which would be the same regardless of whether they have a boyfriend/girlfriend...

I know in my situation this year has been completely different for me in regards to my friendships and going out - I'm living by myself which is more expensive and i'm working less because uni is more hectic - so i cant afford to go out that often... and also i really cant afford it TIME wise as I have so much uni work to do and its never-ending *sigh*

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QUOTE(Betterman @ Jun 15 2006, 03:20 PM)

another thing, a guy or girl has no idea about relationships an how they work stuff until they get screwed over. once you get screwed over royally or get out of a long term relationship it changes your whole outlook on them.....for the better

Amen to that harry

thats why i got my tattoo to remind me of what can go wrong lol

i like being single coz i can party with u truck ren and watch ricey say he is gonna pick up but munt out instead go on my son

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QUOTE(jodiejai @ Jun 15 2006, 04:36 PM)

I must admit its frustrating when people automatically assume that because you've got a boyfriend/girlfriend thats the reason you stop going out/stop seeing your friends as much...

Although it does happen a lot ....a lot of people also have other reasons for not going out and for not catching up with people as much as they used to, which would be the same regardless of whether they have a boyfriend/girlfriend...

I know in my situation this year has been completely different for me in regards to my friendships and going out - I'm living by myself which is more expensive and i'm working less because uni is more hectic - so i cant afford to go out that often... and also i really cant afford it TIME wise as I have so much uni work to do and its never-ending *sigh*

And because you're too busy banging G_

You're a G Banger!

hahahaha

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QUOTE(Aces High @ Jun 15 2006, 03:44 PM)

thats why i got my tattoo to remind me of what can go wrong lol

You got a spider to remind you of things gone wrong????

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QUOTE(LightningChyld @ Jun 15 2006, 03:55 PM)

You got a spider to remind you of things gone wrong????

black widow

i was talkin to a chick on sunday who got the significance of the tat as soon as she saw it

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You jaded lover you

BettermanPosted: 15 Jun 2006, 4:03pm

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im about to do something that G__'s gonna hate me for :p

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QUOTE(Betterman @ Jun 15 2006, 04:03 PM)

im about to do something that G__'s gonna hate me for :p

dude - everyones done his girl, he`s used to it..

lubchoo g g wub wub nummnumms :p

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QUOTE(Betterman @ Jun 15 2006, 04:03 PM)

im about to do something that G__'s gonna hate me for :p

:huh:

QUOTE(slide @ Jun 15 2006, 04:10 PM)

dude - everyones done his girl, he`s used to it..
lubchoo g g wub wub nummnumms :p

I'll have you know that G is the only person in the rave scene I've been with
.... and I intend on keeping it that way :angel: :kiss:

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QUOTE(jodiejai @ Jun 15 2006, 04:16 PM)

:huh:
I'll have you know that G is the only person in the rave scene I've been with
.... and I intend on keeping it that way :angel: :kiss:

I think he was talking about some of the other ones, Jodes!

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no i wasnt.. i was talking bout that night... me, the tane.. tetit pepet... :p :lol:

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Shhhh.... :shifty: :lol:

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hmmm i would probably fall in the category of dissapearing in thin air once I meet someone... why go out when you can snuggle with someone in bed and a few bottles of wine... mmm!

Then again, it can get suffocating I guess... but its all an adventure (the honeymoon period I call it...

Annnnnyway, who thinks nightclubs are shitty ways to meet people for a relationship etc?

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QUOTE(Naked @ Jun 15 2006, 04:25 PM)

Annnnnyway, who thinks nightclubs are shitty ways to meet people for a relationship etc?

Well, some very long relationships that I know of met there... The others met through friends or someshit. I know of a couple who met off the internet.

I don't think that a club is a shitty place to meet people, as straight away you have a common interest. Going out, getting blind and trying to pick up. :lol:
Anyways, if you see them again it probably won't be in a club and you can qualify whether they're a wanker or not soon enough.
A club is a gathering place of people, and surely they're not all idiots.

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Yeah the honeymoon period is good but you have to remember your friends also because when/if you break up they are going to be the ones there for you.
Also i think it's good for a relationship to have your own space and go our with your friends without eachother all the time.
That's also where the thing of trust comes into it because some guys/girls get all possesive and worry that the other will cheat on them.

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QUOTE(LightningChyld @ Jun 15 2006, 05:29 PM)

Well, some very long relationships that I know of met there... The others met through friends or someshit. I know of a couple who met off the internet.

I don't think that a club is a shitty place to meet people, as straight away you have a common interest. Going out, getting blind and trying to pick up. :lol:
Anyways, if you see them again it probably won't be in a club and you can qualify whether they're a wanker or not soon enough.
A club is a gathering place of people, and surely they're not all idiots.

One of my ex's and i met in a club (Heaven) and it was a great relationship while it lasted (about a year).
Clubs are alright to meet people in depending on what club it is your in.
The only trouble with meeting people in places like the city is that they could live on the complete opposite side of the city which could result in copius amounts of travelling.

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QUOTE(LightningChyld @ Jun 15 2006, 05:29 PM)

A club is a gathering place of idiots, and surely they're not all people.

i concur!! :tongue:

I met my girl at EF, how can you pick the odds on meeting the right person there!? Love can strike anywhere at anytime.. id say it would be less likely to happen at a club however.

Anyway im with you Naked, i dont understand people who go out to clubs specifically to find a relationship, theres to much interference on the love waves man.

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...mmm although ive had a couple of relationships out of people I've met at raves, the best ones I've had were the ones I met through people or outside a club... mmm

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my advice to singles is always go with your first gut instinct. I went against my gut instinct and let my friends choose a guy for me out of two guys that were interested at the time. That is one decision I regret as I could never trust him completely and what do you know he ended up being an arsehole who cheated on me and lied to my face. But hey you live and learn. :)

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Being in a perfect relationship is always going to be good, although as in all things in life, its what you make of it, single life can be the bomb diggitty too, just not as much

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QUOTE(Laa Laa @ Jun 15 2006, 10:45 PM)

my advice to singles is always go with your first gut instinct. I went against my gut instinct and let my friends choose a guy for me out of two guys that were interested at the time. That is one decision I regret as I could never trust him completely and what do you know he ended up being an arsehole who cheated on me and lied to my face. But hey you live and learn. :)

Great advice :) Always do what YOU want and not what others expect of you.
Gut instinct is always good with relationships !

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QUOTE(LightningChyld @ Jun 15 2006, 03:59 PM)

You jaded lover you

im jaded i dont GAF

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Man...theres no such thing as a perfect relationship. ANYWAY...

the single life has its ups and downs, you can party with people, meet new people, hug and kiss people, etc

in a relationship tho, you can do all the above but you'll have to consider the feelings of the other half and hope that he/she doesnt get jealous...you'll have to save more coz of 3month, 6month and 1year anniversaries, buy presents for her/him and their immediate family, only go out when he/she lets you

hmm??!! Maybe single life is a bit better but you get A LOT more nookie in a relationship

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QUOTE(metal head! @ Jun 15 2006, 10:42 AM)

bwhahaha you a card arnt ya dimi..........you meen people who cant find someone to be in a relationship with HAVE to do those things to stop them from realising they are sad and might CUT THEMSELVES!

naa mate

diffrent strokes for diffrent fokes and personaly i hope you stroke the knife down your forearm and then across your wrists just to make doubly sure