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New to scene and need advice!
KapitanKatoPosted: 10 Jun 2008, 4:19pm
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Hi all

I'm an oldie (lol) in my late 30's and only in the last few months have really started to really get into dance music and now just love it and funnily enough, it's kinda taking over my life; I can't get enough of it! WOW! It's like a whole new world is opening up!!!

I am just HANGIN to go out clubbing so I can hear this stuff through a REAL sound system and hit the dancefloor all night but unfortunately most of my boring 'oldie' friends (i.e Elton John listeners) couldn't care less about dance music and think I'm some kind of weirdo trying to relive my youth or something so I've got noone to really chat to about this stuff or get advice. So I'm hoping this forum can teach me something.

I REALLY REALLY wanna go to Winter Enchanted 2008 but have never been to a rave or anything like that before, have no-one to really go with and was just thinkin of buying a ticket for myself and heading along, going with the flow and seeing where the night takes me. Is that a good idea? I heard that people are friendly and open and unpretentious at these things and that there's no hassles or bullshit like the drunk, agro you find in pubs and stuff - is that true? If so, it sounds amazing and I wanna be there!!!!!!

Also, I don't know how it works...if I get a ticket to Winter Enchanted it says that it's being held at a theatre in the city (Waymouth St I think) however what's the go with people talking about it being at a 'secret location' etc? Does that mean that it won't be at the theatre and the venue will change at the last minute?

Also, what should I wear? Just some cool cargos and a t-shirt I was thinkin so I don't get too hot from dancin, does that sound about right? Would I dress for a rave the same way I'd dress for a club? And what's the go with 'toys' and glow sticks and beads to give to other people and stuff, I don't wanna miss out on some aspect of the whole experience because I didn't know lol. Bottom line, it all sounds like a heap of fun to me and I wanna be part of it.

So SORRY I'm a complete numpty (and you're probably all groaning to yourselves lol) but hey, everyone has to start somewhere and any advice would be very much appreciated!!!!!

Thanx!!!
reewindPosted: 10 Jun 2008, 4:24pm
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If you’re after beads, glowsticks and fluro wear, send Mayday a PM.

He’s probably this scenes biggest distributor of beads and glowsticks and he’ll be able to get you a sweet deal on some dancing pants too.

Welcome to RA and have a wicked time at Winter Enchanted 040_thumbsup.gif
Mr SPosted: 10 Jun 2008, 4:33pm
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hook up with JJ... send him a PM.. he's the RA ambassador and he's one of the most enthusiastic people at raves you'll ever meet
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djhusbandPosted: 10 Jun 2008, 8:46pm
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Welcome to the scene brother, hope you enjoy your stay!

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S.M.P.Posted: 11 Jun 2008, 12:15am
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QUOTE(KapitanKato @ Jun 10 2008, 04:19 PM) [snapback]1068216917[/snapback]
I heard that people are friendly and open and unpretentious at these things and that there's no hassles or bullshit like the drunk, agro you find in pubs and stuff - is that true? If so, it sounds amazing and I wanna be there!!!!!!

Also, what should I wear? Just some cool cargos and a t-shirt I was thinkin so I don't get too hot from dancin, does that sound about right? Would I dress for a rave the same way I'd dress for a club? And what's the go with 'toys' and glow sticks and beads to give to other people and stuff, I don't wanna miss out on some aspect of the whole experience because I didn't know lol. Bottom line, it all sounds like a heap of fun to me and I wanna be part of it.

Yep, people are very friendly at raves.....its a beautiful scene for that aspect - until sketchy Tuesday sets in of course 016_lol.gif

As to what to wear.....whatever makes you feel comfortable, but as a "late-ish 30-er" also, I say stay the hell away from glow sticks and shit....leave that for the kiddies.....us oldies are so cool we just glow on our own 015_tongue.gif

oh, and if you want some beads to give to people you can have all my old ones that I seem to have collected over the years.....I don't wear them out any more, and I have stacks here....instant collection that you can throw into the crowd for all I care 003_wink.gif

Just throw yourself in and swim I say...you'll have a ball 006_grin.gif

PS: Welcome to the "other side of life" 040_thumbsup.gif

This post has been edited by S.M.P.: Jun 11 2008, 10:48 AM
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StonedAgainPosted: 11 Jun 2008, 6:52am
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Welcome to the RAVE Scene, there are many many ravers over 30 years of age and a few over 40 so you won't look completely out of place, you may be veiwed with suspicion for a while as to what your motives are for being at events with lots of young chickies wearing bugger all but they will judge that by how you conduct yourself. The rave scene differs in that its not a pick up place at all and you will notice this quickly. At a RAVE you will see and experiance a phenomonem known as PLUR which translates to Peace,Love,Unity,Respect.

I hear what you say about the music as my partner and I have been listening to Dance Music for about 7 years now and play it at home exclusively and in the car at all times and just cant get into any of the music we are supposed to be listening to at our age to the point where we avoid friends parties etc where they will be playing elton john and the like.

There are so many things to like about the RAVE Scene but the best part I find is that you dont need to dance with anyone and people dont care how you dance because thats an expression of yourself and you are free to express yourself on the dancefloor.

My 17 yo son and I are going to Enchanted so feel free to hook up with us and have a gasbag.

BTW I'm 46 years young 006_grin.gif

Ps if they state a venue it will be at that venue, the secret location thing is all but impossible nowdays due the authorities being able to close down a rave for many reasons if the promoter hasn't got all neccesary bases covered.

Why not post a picture in the What do you look like thread so people from hgere can come up and say hi at Enchanted.

This post has been edited by StonedAgain: Jun 11 2008, 07:08 AM
Frank Zappa - Dancin' Fool Lyrics

Don't know much about dancin'That's why I got this song,One of my legs is shorter than the other
'N' both my feet's too long,'Course now right along with 'em,I got no natural rhythm,
But I go dancin' every night,Hopin' one day I might get it right,I'm a dancin'fool, I'm a Dancin' fool
I hear that beat; I jump outa my seat,But I can't compete, cause I'm a Dancin' fool, I'm a Dancin' fool.

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NeeTzPosted: 11 Jun 2008, 10:57am
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I only started raving 6 years ago when I was 25 (to most that is a late age to start LOL) But I say better late than never!! I love the scene, the people are awesome and the music is well, my life.

If you like Trance tunes, come over to www.trancesa.com

And the best thing about the scene is that you can leave your troubles at the door, feel free, alive and truly enjoy yourself .... and it doesnt matter what you wear, how old you are, what you look like, how you dance...its all good

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LightningChyldPosted: 11 Jun 2008, 11:00am
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Welcome Kapitan. I love hearing new people being so enthusiastic. You can make up for the rest of us jaded bastards! 016_lol.gif

Seriously, go there by yourself and you are bound to meet people. I went to my first rave by myself and that nigt met people I still see out and about. If you want glowsticks, have glowsticks. You may find them more annoying than anything else but if you like them, have them. Cargos and a Tshirt is a good idea, keep a jumper for when you leave though!

Bring the PLUR! 001_smile.gif
Do the Alphabet song and Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star have the same tune?
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NakedPosted: 11 Jun 2008, 3:03pm
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I went to my first rave in Adelaide by myself! Nothing to it, and it is so much easier to meet new people that way!!!

Go on, have a blast, you'll love it!
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Aces HighPosted: 11 Jun 2008, 4:05pm
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NakedPosted: 11 Jun 2008, 4:12pm
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impractical you mean?

As if! Nice deep pockets for the water, the hip flask, wallet, phone....won't jump out whilst dancing, and of course, a secret pocket for the unmentionables. And shuffling looks so much better with a pair of phatties on.

Needless to say, I've grown out of wearing them, but they sure were fun times...
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PrattyPosted: 11 Jun 2008, 4:46pm
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QUOTE(reewind @ Jun 10 2008, 04:24 PM) [snapback]1068216918[/snapback]
If you’re after beads, glowsticks and fluro wear, send Mayday a PM.

He’s probably this scenes biggest distributor of beads and glowsticks and he’ll be able to get you a sweet deal on some dancing pants too.

Welcome to RA and have a wicked time at Winter Enchanted 040_thumbsup.gif

016_lol.gif im glad i logged onto this highly neglected site just to see that post. hahaah nice work Mikey. 016_lol.gif
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TrasorPosted: 11 Jun 2008, 5:45pm
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i smell pork

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MartyPosted: 12 Jun 2008, 3:58pm
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If youre ever in the city and want to see some current rave 'fashion' and accessories etc. Come and stop past our store at "Level 1, 14 James Place, In the City" Stairs are right next to the bottleshop!!
Theres always random ravers in to ask questions... 027_wink.gif
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Catsy!Posted: 12 Jun 2008, 4:32pm
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WELCOME!!! *Sends you much PLUR and Candy and Huggles!!! Mwah Mwah Mwah!!!*

hehe, lets begin the learning:
Wikipedia is a good source of info too!!!:-P

PLUR: Peace, Love Unity and Respect (acronym)
"It is a credo or mantra of the rave culture. Many in the rave scene have heard this term at sometime or another, although its common usage is relatively recent. Early 1990s and mid-1980s ravers often followed similar principles, but did not use this coinage to describe their beliefs. It may be interpreted as the way that a raver believes he or she should live his or her life, and how people are expected to behave at a rave. This philosophy of the rave culture often takes precedence over any chemical aspects of the rave scene"

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djhusbandPosted: 12 Jun 2008, 4:38pm
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QUOTE(Trasor @ Jun 11 2008, 06:45 PM) [snapback]1068217041[/snapback]
i smell pork

mmm dinner time 058_teehee.gif


word!
Fire it up!
DJ LooneyPosted: 12 Jun 2008, 5:36pm
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Just love the place and love the music, if i see someone goin mental to a song wether it be dancing or just sitting ona seat waving there hands cause they just cant help but move to the music i acknowledge them and may even go have a chat (after the song finishes of course). So get out there and enjoy which is the most important things in life..............RAVING!!

Also i might have to come check out ur store Marty
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TaranisPosted: 13 Jun 2008, 1:11am
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Went to my first rave by myself and had a blast, always friendly people around, I doubt you'll find many places more open and accepting. There are heaps of older people around the scene as well, so it's not like you'll feel completely out of place.

Doesn't matter what you wear really, just something comfortable for dancing. I've never worn anything other than tshirt/jeans/cargo's (I'd love a pair of phatties, but I'm too cheap to have a pair custom made and couldn't settle for premade), and glowsticks of course, just cause I love to have something to hold in my hands when I'm dancing.

As long as you're there to enjoy the music and have a good time, and don't impede on other peoples ability to do so, anything goes.

What kind of voodoo do you do?
Baby GPosted: 13 Jun 2008, 1:32am
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In Canada a woman over 30 that is single is called a Cougar.

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djhusbandPosted: 13 Jun 2008, 9:21am
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016_lol.gif I'm assuming the bear spray doesn't work on rave cougars
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muzzaPosted: 13 Jun 2008, 9:40am
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QUOTE(Trasor @ Jun 11 2008, 06:45 PM) [snapback]1068217041[/snapback]
i smell pork

mmm dinner time 058_teehee.gif

The same thing is in the back of my mind but maybe im just too sketchy ;-)

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Baby GPosted: 13 Jun 2008, 10:09am
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hahahaha

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djhusbandPosted: 13 Jun 2008, 10:58am
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LightningChyldPosted: 13 Jun 2008, 11:49am
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Walshy and Jamie, you guys are funny. Paranoid but funny. You never know, this person could be a lone 30+ confused little raver, not a cop out to ping everything in sight 016_lol.gif


But yeah, you've got me wondering now.
Do the Alphabet song and Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star have the same tune?
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Why did you just try singing the two songs above?
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QUOTE(*KiErA* @ Jun 11 2008, 08:33 AM) [snapback]1068216971[/snapback]
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KameosPosted: 14 Jun 2008, 11:30pm
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exactly what i thought as soon as i read it. oink oink.

could be sketchin but..
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KapitanKatoPosted: 17 Jun 2008, 2:34am
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Hi again all and thanks for all your advice!

Sorry, haven't had a chance to get back on and check out all the replies till now but wow, really appreciated - even you over paranoid types who think I'm a cop, haha, you brought a smile to my face :-) Unfortunately Winter Enchanted is cancelled anyway so I'm gonna have to wait till the next one now but I can't wait!!!!!! :-D

Thanks again

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u dont need to wait till enchanteds to rave hard dude!!

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